How can you not beat yourself up too much when you do things that make you feel like you’re a bad mom?
How does the guilt go away?
My daughter is only 3 months old but whenever I do something I consider lacking or something that accidentally hurts her, I just want to cry out of frustration.
My husband laughs at me and asks me how would I feel when she is older and hurt herself, scrape her knee, or experience a broken heart? I would cry. Probably louder than she would.
But really, how do Moms stay upbeat during situations that make you want to beat yourself up?
Chocolates help, certainly.
Working keeps mind off the guilt, I suppose.
Playing with the baby, coaxing her to smile, tickling her feet. Maybe they’d help you smile too and forget.
Until the next time it happens again.
What people didn’t put a lot of emphasis on when I was pregnant amidst all the advice I was given is this “I am such a bad mom. I wanna beat myself up.” feeling. It is real and it sucks big time.
It helps to have a supportive partner who’d hug you, rub your back, and tell you things are going to be all right after you’ve done the same thing to your kid.
But really, help me out. How can I be upbeat after beating myself up?